During
the years I lived in Mexico City, I spent many an afternoon going to an outdoor
market on Saturday afternoon in Polanco.
Polanco has become very trendy in recent years, but when I lived there,
it was simply a lovely quiet mostly residential neighborhood. The market that I am talking about was
primarily for Mexicans, not foreigners.
It did sell collectibles and old books, but it also sold useful items,
including things that were brought in from the U.S. And like any good outdoor market in Mexico, it
was a place you could bargain with the seller.
Bargaining is truly an art. A
buyer has to show enough interest in an item to keep a seller engaged, but not
so much interest that the seller won’t bring down the price. Sometimes, the buyer has to be willing to
walk away from the seller to show a feigned disinterest, so that the seller
will lower his price to make a sale. It
is sort of like a commercial battle, and it is a very stimulating primary
experience, where buyer and seller leave mental organic imprints on each other
as they move towards a mutually acceptable price. What is potentially acquired by a buyer in
such a situation is not simply a coveted article, but also the memory, the
imprint of a rich vibrant life experience.
I
loved this market as well as other markets in Mexico City and other markets in
the rest of the country, particularly the rural areas. The latter were venues that were particularly
good for the theatrics of good market strategies. And the seller expected these strategies from
the buyer. Should a foreigner like
myself walk away from a seller because the price truly wasn’t acceptable, the
seller would ask the foreigner what he was willing to pay. The seller couldn’t understand how a
potential buyer wouldn’t at least try to bargain before he gave up.
But
shopping can be a vibrant experience even without bargaining. Nowadays, there are supermarkets in France,
but traditionally, French people would buy their food fresh every day from
little specialty shops: bread shops, pastry shops, sausage shops, butcher
shops, produce shops, etc. And buyers
would go into these stores and they would smell the aromas of different foods
and taste different foods and feel the textures of different foods. In such stores, foods are fresh and not
processed, the way so many foods are in modern technological society. The daily
shopping trip became a rich sensory experience. Also, there were the social encounters with
the different shopkeepers, with whom pleasantries were exchanged and
discussions would ensue about how the respective families were doing. The
shopkeepers became old family friends.
In
both Mexico and France, the journey to shop became as important as the
destination. Life was not simply
acquiring items for consumption but also the experiences surrounding the
acquisition of the items. One did not
simply acquire the figures of products in a vacuum; one acquired them in the
rich grounding of organic life. Both the
figures and the grounding were equally important.
Contrast
this with shopping in modern technological society. Shopping in the external world increasingly
tends to be done in big stores: supermarkets and discount department
stores. The supermarkets have a great
variety of food, but much of the food is overly processed, much of the food has
all kinds of preservatives to give it longer shelf life. This does not make for a rich sensory
experience. And shoppers do not usually
develop a one-to-one relationship with the store help. There are too many people working in the store
and most of them do not have intimate knowledge of one particular product area
such that they can make recommendations.
The
same is true in the discount department stores.
Nobody seems to know very much about any of the products they sell. There is practically no social engagement
between the shopper and the people who work in the stores. Yes, one has access to a great variety of
merchandise in a discount department store, but at the cost of being immersed
in a flavorless experiential vacuum.
Trains and trucks and fork lifts and conveyor belts have made moving
large quantities of merchandise possible.
And the increasing focus on the free-floating figures of merchandise is
the result of the gradual destruction of organic living environments. The latter leads to a loss of grounding which
leads people to increasingly accumulate bundles of figure merchandise as a
false kind of grounding. And the best
way to do this is for stores to have vast vacuum spaces selling large
quantities of economical merchandise purchased cheaply by the stores because of
the economy of scale. And the vacuum
spaces of the large discount department stores further contribute to the loss
of the sense of grounding and push people even further to make more purchases
in the form of impulse buying.
But
people have taken purchases in a vacuum space one step further. More and more people have found the
convenience and ease of online shopping to be too seductive to ignore. Everything from clothes to food to books to
plane tickets to all kinds of used items can be bought online. A few clicks on
the computer plus putting in one’s credit card number can start the process in
motion to have goods delivered to your door step within a short period of
time. Plane tickets are in the airline computers
at the airport. There is no necessity to
have to go through the arduous process of talking to another human being, let
alone going through the process of having to physically transport oneself to a
place of purchase. Everything is done
from the comfort of one’s home or one’s office or a coffee house.
Of
course, with online shopping, one not only loses the vibrant interaction from
bargaining in a village market, but one loses the affirming interaction with
known salespeople in a specialty store as well as the sensory involvement with
the merchandise that comes with actually seeing, touching, and even smelling
and tasting it. One still maintains
sensory contact with some unpackaged merchandise in discount department stores
and a minimal contact with service people in these stores, even though the
service people are mostly strangers.
Actually,
there is one form of shopping on the internet that could be said to be a real
interaction between buyer and seller.
This encompasses those situations where one bids for items on online
auctions. The highest bidder before a
deadline gets the item. But this is
bidding, not bargaining. It is like a silent auction, only the bidder is not in
the presence of other bidders or of the merchandise. One is in a vacuum bidding on free-floating
merchandise in the cyber world against nameless free-floating competitors. It is very impersonal and remote. It certainly is not like an art auction house
or a cattle auction house, where one is in the presence of the auctioneer as
well as the art or the cattle as well as the other bidders or their proxies. Such auction houses provide exciting rich
vibrant grounded experiences.
So
much is lost when purchasing on a computer.
There is little sensory contact with merchandise (just visual photos
that don’t show much.) There is no
direct contact with human beings. This
is the purest form of purchasing figure items free from a grounded sensory
shopping experience. The vibrancy of
shopping as a life experience is completely lost.
Now
one other problem with shopping online is that one has to wait at least a day
or two to receive the item or items one has purchased. Most of the time when one goes to a market,
one takes home what one has purchased right after purchasing it. When one goes to a store, one also usually
takes home a purchased item the same day, unless the item is too big like a
refrigerator. So isn’t it amazing that
some online vendors like Amazon have come up with the notion of delivery drones
that can bring an item to the purchaser some thirty minutes after making an
online purchase. It’s not quite as good
as taking an item home from a store, but it’s good enough. If and when this is up and running, online
vendors will be able to deliver almost instant gratification to
purchasers. And in a vacuum living
environment, where rich vibrant shopping experiences are primarily available in
boutiques and specialty food shops for the wealthy, the average middle-class
shopper focuses on getting the only thing available in shopping today and that
is the free-floating figures of products.
The shopping experience has now been reduced to a few clicks on the
computer and in the future to the smooth frictionless delivery from a drone. One really doesn’t have to leave his house
anymore to get what he wants and needs.
That is except the experience of feeling truly alive. Right now, I wish I was in some village
market in Mexico bargaining for some ceramic pots, some woven rugs or some
ceremonial masks. Or some bananas, some
oranges, some peanuts and on it goes.
(c) 2014 Laurence Mesirow